Lead with immediate safety concerns
If you believe someone is in immediate danger, contact emergency services or appropriate local resources rather than relying on an informational website. A legal consultation should begin with the current risk level.
Prepare a factual incident timeline
Write dates, locations, what happened, who was present, and whether any reports or medical care resulted. Keep the description factual and avoid editing records.
Bring existing orders and reports
Police reports, prior court orders, photographs, messages, and relevant medical or school records may help an attorney understand the situation.
Explain child-related concerns clearly
If children are involved, describe specific safety, exchange, school, or communication concerns rather than broad conclusions.
Ask about confidentiality and next steps
Sensitive cases may require careful planning around filing, notice, evidence, and safe communication. Ask how the office handles urgent information and what you should avoid doing before the next step.